Secrets to Being a Perfect Lover
Sexual Harassment of MEN
by Dale Lee Harris
Copyright © 2013 by Dale Lee Harris

In my other writing I explain how to be a basic lover of women and a highly skilled lover of women. The third level is that of being a perfect lover of women. Of course, one must traverse the first two to get to the third. If you want to know about the first two, then read my other writings. There certainly is not enough room to repeat all that I have said here. To be perfect you must first perfect your social environment. That is because imperfections in others causes negative behavior in others which negatively influences your behavior and thus causes imperfection. For example, when evil militant women slander, threaten, and punish men for making women happy, it does in fact inhibit men from making women happy. The problem is, how the hell can you perfect others? One solution is to only seek perfection in positive social environments. Another solution is to change hostile environments into positive environments, by kicking evil militant female sexual harassers of men out of that social environment. Only then is it possible to be uninhibited. The sexual harassment of sexually slandering men should in fact be unacceptable in any social environment. Yet, why does it exist in such great numbers? Why does evil in any form exist in such great numbers? Why do evil militant female man haters sexually harassing men exist in such great numbers?

As I shall explain below, the keys to perfection are skills, opportunity, and motivation. My previous writings have already explained how to be highly skilled. The question then becomes, how do you get both opportunity and motivation? For opportunity, one can find it or attract it. There are methods for doing each. For motivation, one can either find positive social environments where making women happy is in fact motivated or one must seek to change the value-beliefs of a social environment so that making women happy is in fact motivated. There is much that can be said and written about that. My book The Quest for Love did much to explain the value-belief set and skill set needed to be a basic lover and skilled lover. Once that book has sold millions of copies, then I may consider writing another book that teaches the secrets to taking it to the next level. If people want better love lives and read my book The Quest for Love, then it will be worth my time and effort to educate people further on the secrets to being a perfect lover.

I spent years at bars dancing with thousands of women, sharing pleasure with hundreds of women, and giving women the dates and sex that they wanted. I proved I was a lover by being a perfect lover at bars for years. When ever evil militant women at work would hear about me giving good and loving women at bars the pleasure and sex that they wanted, then evil militant women at work would sexually slander me for being a lover.

Dale Lee Harris - Champion of LOVE

I love Smooth Jazz music. The sound of a haunting Sax that flows deep into the primal human emotions of love and romance, is something that touches the very heart and soul of those who listen to that music of peaceful passion. One of my favorite singers is Sade. I love all of her songs and really like Smooth Operator and her more recent song Soldier of Love. This is a timely and important message. There is in fact a War Against Love. Militants want to Kill Love. We, the soldiers of love, must fight to protect Love and save the life of Love. When I was a teenager I had a dream about meeting Love. Her enemy, a snake, was a threat to her. My mission was to defeat the snake in order to protect Love. That dream meant a great deal to me and seemed to be a prophetic message about some of my life mission work. I have become a Soldier for Love, to fight for Love, Understanding, and Equality between the genders and between all races. I believe that is an important Spiritual Life Mission.

In my early life dream, Love chose me as her Champion with a mission of defeating her enemy, the snake. At the time I did not fully understand who were the enemies of love. Later in life I realized that evil militant women were in a declared war against heterosexual love between men and women. Their stated goal in print of busting up heterosexual men and women for being together as a couple in public, pretty much defined them as the number one enemy of Love. The SCUM Manifesto also says, We will kill all men. What some women do not understand is that when evil militant women attack male love for women, they are also attacking women by denying women shared love, pleasure, and happiness from men.

Some women say that poor relations between men and women is always the man's fault, so men need to change. Some women say that relations between men and women would be far better if men would just improve and learn how to be better Lovers of women, who are skilled at pleasuring women and making women happy. Those women have never been inside a man's body and mind and seen the world through a man's eyes. So, there is a great deal that they do not understand nor can ever understand. Only a telepath and empath can think the thoughts of others, feel the emotions of others, and see through the eyes of others. And the women with the view that all problems are the fault of the man, are certainly unskilled at seeing the male viewpoint.

I have done years of Sexual Relations Psychology experimental research at bars. I discovered many psychological secrets that a man can use to improve probable shared happiness with women. I in fact invented a new system of human psychology, which includes Spiritual Psychology and Relationship Psychology. But, one thing that I am certain about is that making women happy is not a function of male skill alone. A man could be a Highly Skilled Lover of Women but not make any women happy. Why is that true, you ask? It is because making women happy is a function of three factors, not one factor. It is a function of skill, opportunity, and motivation.

With zero opportunity to make women happy, it is impossible to make any woman happy. Likewise, if a man is demotivated from making women happy, rather than motivated to make women happy, then it would be against his self interest to make any woman happy. If a Skilled Lover has both opportunity and motivation, then he will likely make women happy. But, if there is lack of opportunity or lack of motivation, then it is far less likely. When a male lover relates to one woman or several women, there are in fact three parties involved. The party of the first part is the man. The party of the second part is the woman or women. The party of the third part is society, which includes third party observers and judges.

Unfortunately, evil militant lesbian women love to watch heterosexual men and women make out and sit on the side lines as third party judges to condemn men for all of the bad things they are doing wrong and to prove that no man is really a lover of women, because of their sexist stated belief that only a woman knows how to love a woman. I heard one militant woman in an incident of sexual slander gossip, sexual harassment of a man, say the following. IF a man makes women happy, THEN he is NOT a lover, because THAT is NOT a lover. Indeed! The TRUTH is that making women happy is the essence of being a male lover and is PROOF of being a male lover! When evil militant man haters use false judgement to Sexually Slander and Sexually Harass men for making women happy, they teach men that making women happy in that hostile social environment results in sexual slander, traumatic threats, and economic punishment, rather than respect, support, and reward. Thus, by pretending to be the best judges of what is and is not a lover, as if women who hate men know anything about actually loving members of the other sex, they put themselves in a position of power to slander, threaten, and punish men for making women happy in order to demotivate men from and stop men from making women happy. When society allows evil militant man heaters to put themselves in a position to sexually judge, sexually slander, and sexually harass men for daring to make women happy, society has allowed the sexual harassment of men. No woman should be allowed to comment on male sexuality until she first proves to men that she is a female lover of men who knows how to love and pleasure men. If she can not prove that she is a lover of men, then she can not prove that she is not sexually biased against men and only engages in sexual slander, which is a form of sexual harassment.

Highly skilled male lovers of women are far more likely to make women happy in a loving social environment, such as a bar or night club, where they can expect respect, support, and reward for making women happy. IF good and loving women at work want skilled male lovers of women to EVER make women happy in the work environment, THEN they must change the work environment from being hostile to being loving. When a man proves he is a lover at bars, by making women happy at bars, and evil militant women at work sexually slander him for proving he is a lover, then he learns that proving he is a lover results in sexual slander, threats, and punishment in that hostile environment. As long as evil militant women at work are allowed to sexually slander him for making women happy at bars, then he will NEVER make women happy at work. As long as women at work do NOT praise and respect him for making women happy at bars, then he will NEVER make women happy at work.

Remember, making women happy is a function of three factors, skill, opportunity, and motivation. IF women do NOT appreciate men who love women, THEN why the hell should men love women? IF women do NOT respect men who make women happy, THEN why the hell should men make women happy? IF women honestly want men to make women happy, THEN they will prove it by respecting men who make women at bars happy. Do I really have to spell it out? No respect given means no happiness gotten. Women may need to educate themselves by listening to the words of a song. R.E.S.P.E.C.T, find out what it means to me.

Those evil militant women who love to say that it is always the man's fault, are certainly wrong. It is most often the fault of the third party evil militant women who are working to sabotage love between heterosexual men and women. When evil militant women sexually slander men for making women happy, they are attacking women by denying women happiness from men. To make women happy a skilled male lover of women must have RESPECT for making women happy.

Here is some advice to good and loving women at work and other social environments. Try the following psychological experiment. Give skilled male lovers of women both opportunity and RESPECT and keep evil militant man hating lesbians from DIS respecting him for making women happy. See if that does not in fact increase the odds of skilled male lovers of women making women happy at work. When men are motivated to make women happy with RESPECT for making women happy, then they are more likely to do so. Evil militant women who would not be caught dead inside a man's mind seeing the world through his eyes, would never have known that.

My advice to women is this. RESPECT men who make women happy and see if that does not improve the chance of women gaining love, pleasure, and happiness from men.

My advice to men is the following. Reject, discard, and defeat the false beliefs, evil values, and sexual lies of evil militant man haters. Demand that evil militant lesbians not be allowed to sexual slander and thus sexually harass you in the work environment. Tell the company you work for to remove the sexual harassment. If they do not fire the evil militant lesbians who are sexually slandering and thus sexually harassing you, then file a law suit against the company for allowing the sexual harassment. Realize that you can not be punished by the company for suing them for sexual harassment. Realize that if you do not sue the company for sexual harassment and the sexual harassment negatively affects your performance on the job, then the company may not give you a raise or may in fact fire you for poor performance. Therefore, the company will in fact fire you for not suing them for sexual harassment. Demand respect for making women happy. Experiment to see where and with who you get respect for making women happy. Only make women happy when you get respect for doing so. Otherwise, you will never get respect. It is in fact wrong and failure to make women happy when you are not respected, because you have failed to get respect. It is success to not make women happy when you do not get respect, because it allows you to succeed at getting respect. Never play their dishonest games, that grants them permission to falsely judge you. They will always sexually slander you, no matter what you do, so reject their sexual lies and tell other men to also reject their sexual lies. Take legal action of a sexual harassment law suit, against them and against the company if the company sides with them, to remove their sexual harassment of you. Then and only then will you be free to make women happy.

Some would argue that a man should have the strength to do what he wants, no matter what the threat. But, if a gun were pointed at the head of those that you love, how brave would you be with their lives? IF evil militants threaten to punish a man for making women happy with the extermination of the human species, THEN it would be wrong to sacrifice the survival of all human life for the sake of the temporary gain of a few. If making women happy results in slander, threats, and punishment, rather than respect, support, and reward, then why the hell should you care about making women happy who obviously do not appreciate and respect you for your efforts in their behalf?

What makes something good or bad? I believe all actions should be chosen based on whether or not it promotes Universal Happiness Gain. If evil forces punish a good act with evil consequences, the act has been turned bad by evil forces. It is evil to make women happy when doing so is punished with the death of billions of people. And if women are not even grateful to you for the things that you do for them, then it is wrong to help people who are ungrateful for help that they get. An act is good or bad, not just based on the consequences for that person, but also based on the consequences for others, society, the human species, and the universe. When evil punishes good with evil, it makes decisions more complicated.

When evil militant women sexually slander, traumatically threaten, and economically punish a man for making women happy and proving he is a lover, then it becomes unwise to make women happy in that social environment. When evil militant women sexually slander, traumatically threaten, and economically punish skilled lovers for making women happy, they effectively prevent skilled lovers of women from making women happy at work where they have a habit of sexually harassing men.

They slandered, threaten, and punished me for making women happy and proving I was a lover. And even good women at work did not seem to appreciate love enough to respect, support, and reward me for making women happy at bars. So, it was both unwise and unimportant to make women happy at work. Why the hell should I, when the result was evil, not good? On the other hand, good and loving women at bars did appreciate love and showed it by respecting, supporting, and rewarding me for making women happy. That is why I made women happy at bars with good and loving women, whether evil militant women at work liked it or not. That is why I proved I was a lover at bars and succeeded at being a perfect lover at bars. Remember, the three keys are skill, opportunity, and motivation. The good and loving women at bars had enough appreciate of love to respect me, so I had the motivation that I needed. But, in a social environment where evil militant women are allowed to DIS respect men for making women happy, why the hell would any man want to make women happy there? I succeeded where I was respected. Where I was not respected, I did not have the third key, namely the motivation to do so.

IF women want men to make women happy, then they really need to learn how to appreciate men for loving women and respect men for making women happy. IF they do NOT, then they might as well forget about EVER getting love, pleasure, and happiness from men. No respect means no happiness. IF women want men to be lovers of women, THEN women must learn how to RESPECT men for making women happy. In social environments where men are respected, women will get love, pleasure, and happiness from men. In social environments where men are NOT respected, women will miss out. But, perhaps that is what evil militant lesbians want. If they can force men to not give women love, pleasure, and happiness, then more women will turn to evil militant lesbians for comfort. Then they can rape women, and women will not complain because they are told that complaining about being raped by a leader of the Women's Movement is being disloyal to women. So, women will not complain, because they can no longer get love, pleasure, and happiness from men.

Perhaps the only answer is to file sexual harassment law suits against companies that allow evil militant lesbians to sexually harass men. Only if those women are fired, will the social environment once again be safe for Heterosexual Love. Perhaps the only way to protect Love, is to sue the Enemies of Love. Perhaps the secret to being a great lover is to sue militant lesbian man haters for attacking male love for women. In a society that is sexually biased against men, can a man win such a lawsuit?

Our society is so sexually biased against men that it may be difficult for a man to sue evil militant women for sexual harassment and companies that allow the sexual harassment of men. I see the sexual bias and sexual discrimination against men all of the time. When I was chairman of the Affirmative Action and Diversity Council at one of the companies I worked for, I was able to get access to documentation on how the company dealt with the subject of sexual harassment. They had a survey on sexual harassment that was only given to women to answer and only had questions related to the typical ways that men harass women and none about the ways women harass men. Since men do the asking for a date probably over ninety five percent of the time, questions like unwanted asking is geared at male perpetrator and female victim. On the other hand there were no questions about sexual gossip and verbal sexual slander. Women tend to gossip more than men, so the sexual harassment of abusive sexual gossip is more likely to see a female harasser of a male victim. But that question was not even on the survey about sexual harassment! And men were not even asked to participate in the survey to see if any men were victims of sexual harassment. I expect that far more men in the work environment have been victimized by militant women sexually harassing them through sexual gossip, than women in the work environment who have experienced unwanted asking. To be perfectly honest, unwanted asking is not sexual harassment unless in includes pressuring the woman to say yes. If a woman is sitting at a bar and her body language says that she is in the mood to dance, then a man is acting to satisfy her desires by offering her a dance, even if she had no previous thought that she wanted him in particular to ask her. It is not unwanted asking that is sexual harassment, but rather abusive asking that seeks to pressure a woman to do something that she really does not want to do.

When asked why no male was asked to fill out a survey question about whether he has experienced sexual harassment, it was reported that a high level company manager responded as follows. If I want to know if there is sexual harassment, then I will ask women. So, the company does not care if men are sexually harassed and does not want to even know about it? So, the company does not even give a damn if men are victims of sexual harassment? So, the company actually supports the act of women sexually harassing men? That, unfortunately, is the sexual biased situation in America. If the court system is as sexually biased as are companies, can a man file a sexual harassment lawsuit and win? Perhaps if there are enough men on the jury who have experienced female sexual slander gossip. But, often men are victims of sexual harassment and feel they have little recourse.

When evil militant women are confronted with complaints about them sexually harassing men, they defend their sexual gossip with words like it is just talking, and everyone talks. When a man tries to pressure a woman into saying yes to a date or to sex, is it just talking? The definition of Sexual Harassment includes repeated verbal abuse of a sexual nature. Sexual slander of a man is Sexual Harassment. When an evil militant woman SCREAMS in a man's ear, he is not a lover, it is not just Sexual Harassment of the man that she is referring to, but also Sexual Harassment of the man who's ear she is screaming in, to bully him into believing what she orders him to believe in.

Sexual Harassment is all about power. And evil militant women are all about having power over the sex lives of others. When they sexually slander men and scream in the ears of men, it is sexually abusive and Sexual Harassment.

If a man is sexually slandered, traumatically threatened, and economically punished for making women happy, then it may be safer and easier to just not make women happy in that hostile social environment. It is much easier and safer to only be a perfect lover at the loving social environments of bars with good and loving women at bars who respect men who make women happy. It is not possible to be a perfect lover in a hostile social environment where making women happy results in sexually harassing sexual slander, traumatic threats, and economic punishment. It is only possible if the hostile social environment is changed into a loving social environment.

My advice to men includes the following. Never play the mind games of evil militant lesbian haters of male heterosexuality, who sexually slander and punish men for being heterosexual to try to force men to stop being heterosexual. They may call it failure to not be a perfect lover while you are being sexually slandered, traumatically threatened, and economically punished for being a lover and making women happy. But, that is a lie and you must reject their evil lies. Do not lose your self confidence and self respect just because some people lie about you, inhibit your actions, and then condemn you for being inhibited by them. If you were wrong for being inhibited by their sexual slander, threats, and punishment, what were you supposed to have done to prevent them from inhibiting you, kill them? Were you wrong because you did not kill them to stop them from inhibiting you? Or, perhaps you should have filed a sexual harassment law suit against them or taken more legal action to stop their sexual abuse of you. But, if you are not in a more powerful position and you are not sure if a sexual harassment law suit will succeed, then it may not have been wise to take the more combative legal response. The truth is that sometimes it is success to not make women happy. Something is good if it promotes Universal Happiness Gain and bad if it does not. IF making women happy is punished with much greater suffering for you or much greater suffering for society as a whole, then making women happy becomes bad, and not making women happy becomes success at promoting Universal Happiness Gain. Besides, men have as much right to freedom of choice as do women, and men have the right to not make women happy that they are not particularly interested in. Denying male sexual freedom is Sexual Harassment.

When a man is Sexually Harassed at work by evil militant women, it may be wise to consult with both a psychologist who understands the sexual harassment of men and a lawyer who understands the sexual harassment of men. Some psychologists may be biased against men and have the popular social prejudice that men are always the perpetrator and women are always the victim. Avoid such psychologists. Perhaps men should seek out either a male psychologist or a female psychologist that understands men. Perhaps men should join a Men's Organization, such as National Coalition for Men, and see if they have a list of psychologists that understand the ways men are Sexually Harassed. Men need to only go to a psychologist who is on the side of men and therefore will fight to defend your rights and help protect you from sexually abusive women. Ask both the psychologist and the lawyer for advice on how best to deal with being a male victim of Sexual Harassment. Having expert good advice from professionals who are on your side and and who fully understand sexual harassment of men may be the best first step to doing something to end your sexual abuse at the hands of evil militant lesbian man haters.

My advice to men includes the following. Realize that it is good and success to only make women happy when it promotes Universal Happiness Gain, which includes your happiness and well being as well as the happiness and well being of society as a whole. So, only be a perfect lover in loving social environments where it is respected, and never in hostile social environments where it is sexually slandered. Never allow memory of negative experiences in hostile social environments to negatively effect your behavior in loving environments. Always test women and social environments to see if being a lover and making women happy results in respect or slander. If respect, then be free to share happiness with the women where there is mutual desire and mutual interest. If slander, then inform that social environment that is has a major problem and needs to change. Demand that making women happy results in respect, not slander. But, you can not be free in that environment until it changes. It must no longer allow evil militant lesbians to sexually harass you by sexually judging you and sexually slandering you for being heterosexual and making women happy. It must change and assure that positive action results in respect. You may have to help that social environment to change, by filing sexual harassment complaints and perhaps filing a sexual harassment law suit. Or, you might merely give up on that social environment if it does not change from hostile to loving. It may be best to make a public statement that you will never make women happy in that social environment, until it changes and never allows evil militant lesbians to sexual slander and thus sexually harass you. But, what are the risks of being punished with great harm to others, if you do make such a statement? Advice from experts who are honestly on your side might be helpful.

You may have to educate society to remove sexual bias against men, so that it is safe to file sexual harassment complaints. Will a sexually biased society punish a man for filing sexual harassment complaints and a sexual harassment law suit? That may be a risk, but it may be a risk well worth taking. Realize that sexual harassment at work creates a hostile work environment that will make you want to not be at work. That can make you less productive on the job as well as work less overtime hours on the job. As a result, you will get lower raises and may lose your job. So, you may in fact be punished for not filing a sexual harassment law suit against the company. If a company rates you down or fires you for being less productive, because you are a victim of sexual harassment at work, then the company has participated in sexually harassing you and is itself guilty of sexual harassment. Definitely file a law suit if there is nothing to lose anyway. Filing a sexual harassment law suit may be the only way to end the hostile work environment so that you can be more productive, work more hours, and get promotions and raises, rather than being laid off. A sexual harassment law suit may be the only way to save your job and get the promotions that you would get, if only you were not sexually harassed on the job.

It is time for men to get the respect that they deserve for being male lovers of women who make women happy. It is time for the sexual harassment of men to end. It is time for the War Against Men, which includes the declaration We will kill all men, to end. It is time to protect and save Love by defeating the Enemies of Love.

Champion of LOVE - Defeat the ENEMIES of LOVE

The question is, how can we save the life of Love by defeating the enemies of Love? Who are the enemies of Male Heterosexual Love for Women, what is their threat, and how can we defeat them in order to save Love?

Evil militant lesbians who have said in print that they want to kill all men and bust up heterosexual men and women, are in a war against male heterosexual love for women. Sexual Harassment is all about power, and they are all about seeking power over the sex lives of others. They seek to empower themselves to be the sexual dictators over society, so that everyone in society must obey their sexual rules to get respect and social reward. Those who refuse to be their sexual puppets are sexually slandered and socially punished for disobeying the demands of them, the rulers over sex in society. They put themselves in a position to judge whether a man is or is not a lover. But, since they believe that only a woman can love another woman, then no matter what he does, he just is not as good at loving women as a woman would be at loving women. So, because he does not have a vagina, no matter what he does, he is not a lover. By sexually slandering, traumatically threatening, and economically punishing men for making women happy, they effectively prevent men from making women happy. As a result, they expect lonely women will turn to them for sex. By sexually slandering, traumatically threatening, and economically punishing male heterosexual love for women, they inhibit, destroy, and kill male heterosexual love for women.

When evil people put themselves in charge of the social values that everyone else lives by, and seize the social power to respect and reward those who obey them and slander and punish those who disobey them, they have made themselves the sex dictators of society and forced everyone to live by their evil sexual values. The only way that heterosexual men and women will be free to share love and happiness is to dethrone the Sexual Harassing Sexual Dictators. That is, take the social power away from Evil Militants and give it rather to Good Lovers. Then and only then are people free to live by good social values. Then and only then are men free to make women happy.

The ENEMIES of LOVE - Slander and Threaten Love

First let us look at an example of how they threaten traumatic punishment for being a lover, in order to keep men from being lovers of women. When the United States and the Soviet Union were in an arms race in the Cold War, the odds of the Global Nuclear Extermination of the Human Species was very high. The death of billions of people in a Global Nuclear War was my greatest fear. Certain things had to happen, in order to prevent the extermination of the human species. I wrote my book, Jesus Christ's World Utopia, in part to help avert the death of the human species.

First evil militant women said that if I were a lover, then they would support my book. But my telepathic abilities triggered an image or vision of them talking in private about burning my book. Telepathically hearing a conversation miles away can cause the mind to focus on that and get a remote viewing of the event. Acting like they honored the agreement while secretly sabotaging the sales of the book and then burning the copies, was not the kind of double cross I wanted to happen. To get their real true intentions documented in public, I publicly asked for confirmation that if I were in fact a lover, then it would in fact result in sales of many copies of my book, not just pretend support for my book. The verbal response was that no one would buy my book. Thus, the so called reward for being a lover was that steps would be taken to make sure that no one would buy my book. The sabotage of work to prevent the death of billions of people is in fact acting to kill billions of people. What they were thus saying is that, being a lover would be punished with the Extermination of the Human Species.

I asked for assurance that I would in fact not be punished for being a lover. Their response was to refuse to back down from the threatened punishment by not giving me the assurance that I asked for. Thus, their public statements made if very clear that being a lover, at least in the work environment where they were at, would be traumatically punished with the death of billions of people. At that point in time, it thus became impossible for me to ever give dates and sex to any woman in the work environment. From that point in time forward, the ONLY way that I could EVER share dates and sex with women at work, would be if there were a public statement by women at work that they would make sure that I would not be traumatically punished for sharing dates and sex with women at work. Their traumatic threat and refusal to back down from that traumatic threat, basically ended all hope for women at work, until things CHANGED and I got the assurance that I asked for. The threat and the refusal to back down from the threat pretty much proved that they honestly did not want me or any man to be a lover and make women happy. IF women HONESTLY want a man to be a lover, THEN they will respect him for doing so, promise reward for doing so, and reward him for doing so, as opposed to slander, threats, and punishment for making women happy. IF women HONESTLY want a man to be a lover, and he says I need X to be a lover and X is a reasonable request, then they will give him X. Refusal to give a man what he says he needs is PROOF that they do NOT HONESTLY want him to be a lover. Assurance that being a lover will not be punished with the Extermination of the Human Species is certainly a reasonable request. Not only did they deny the request but made light of it by saying, that is not his problem. When evil militant women refuse to believe what a man says, it proves they are prejudiced against men, and judge men based on their internal prejudice. No one wants to be judged by people who has already made up their mind that you are guilty, regardless of the evidence. They are unacceptable judges of men. WHEN men agree to let militant man haters sexually judge men, THEN they agree to let militant man haters sexually slander and Sexually Harass men. Militant man haters were playing a dishonest game of pretending they want men to be lovers, but then using slander, threats, and punishment for making women happy to keep men from making women happy, and then conclude by saying: see, that proves that no man is a lover of women who makes women happy. Their dishonest game was to prove that no man is a lover of women, by putting themselves in charge of deciding if the man is or is not a lover and by using sexual slander, traumatic threats, and economic punishment to make sure that he was not a lover in their social environment.

The threat of being traumatically punished if I ever shared dates and sex with women at work proved to me that they were liars playing a dishonest mind game. However, I did have a degree of faith in female society, and felt that if I gave female society their dream of love, then female society would be grateful and give me my dream of saving the world. The Christian community did not support the Christian book I wrote, so there did not seem to be any other group that I could get help from to save the world. My first life dream was to save the world. My second life dream became learning and then teaching others the psychological secrets to being a lover. It was hoped that the pursuit of the second dream would help me achieve the first dream of saving the world. So, I had to do a lot of experimental research to learn the secrets to teach others. I could do some experiments at work, as long as I did not dare share dates and sex with anyone at work. Since bars were out of the sight of the Evil Ones, it seemed worth the risk to go further there.

As my sexual psychology research led to more insight into Sexual Relationship Psychology, my success with good and loving women at bars increased. But, every time Evil Militant women at work heard about me sharing pleasure and sex with women at bars, they would sexually slander me for making good and loving women at bars happy. When they heard about me sharing pleasure and sex with women they would sexually slander me with words like he forced himself on her. When I responded by pointing out that in public she asked for the pleasure with her body language and then made a public verbal statement that she enjoyed it, the evil militant woman then used hateful sexual slander against the woman by saying something like she was a whore. One militant woman said that one of the bars that I had one night stands at must be a meat market. Their Sexual Slander of me and the women I was with, was very disgusting. By sexually slandering me for making women happy, this further proved that they did not want me or any other man to be a lover and make women happy. Evil militant women play a dishonest game of claiming that they want men to be lovers, while proving that they do not want men to be lovers by slandering, threatening, and punishing men for making women happy.

If Evil Militant Women really want men to believe that they want men to make women happy, then prove it! Prove it by complementing and praising a man, when they hear about him giving a woman the pleasure that she wants, rather than sexually slandering him for it. Prove it by promising effective support for his dreams, rather than threatening sabotage of his dreams. Prove it by economically rewarding him, rather than economically punishing him. They are nothing but evil Sexual Harassers and liars. They can not and will not prove that they want men to make women happy. Their words and actions have proven the truth. Their words of all men are rapists, proves their sexual hatred of all men. Their words of only a woman knows how to love a woman proves that the only way they would call a man a lover is if he had a sex change operation and was no longer a man. They disgust me.

Social Rules to END Sexual Harassment

To end the Sexual Harassment of Men, the first thing that must be done is remove all social power from the evil militant female sexual harassers of men. That means, they are not allowed to judge men in any way or comment about men in any way that is related to sex, sexuality, or sexual relations. Sexual Harassment includes repeated verbal abuse of a sexual nature. Given that they hate men, if they do make any comments about a man which is related to sex in any way, it will undoubtedly be verbal abuse of a sexual nature and they are certain to do that more than one time. So, as ground rules, to prevent the inevitable Sexual Harassment, just ban them from making any comments. If unwanted asking is Sexual Harassment, then unwanted gossip certainly is. Since men obviously do not want to hear verbally abusive gossip, it is Sexual Harassment and should be banned.

The social power to set social rules of behavior, including rules about sexual behavior, must be given to male and female lovers. When evil militant women or evil militant men set the rules for sexual behavior, then either men will be abused or women will be abused. Only lovers, who love both genders, can be trusted to set social rules that are fair and respects the rights of everyone. So, society must remove all social power from militants and give all social power to male and female lovers.

Much of the verbal based Sexual Harassment involves Sexual Slander and Sexual Lies. So, we need an Honesty Rule with regards to conversation. The Rule is: Always use words as they are defined, and never do an Alice in Wonderland of using words to mean what ever you want them to mean. There are standard dictionary definitions of words. There are also rules for deriving a definition from a base word definition. For example, the er Rule is that the word Xer means one who does X. A bowler is one who bowls. A lover is one who loves. A skilled bowler is a bowler who is skilled at the game. A skilled lover is a lover who is skilled at making women happy. A great lover or perfect lover is highly skilled to the point of near perfection and making for mistakes. He can maximize the probability of shared happiness in a wide variety of situations.

Note that I am here using the term lover when I really mean male lover of women. To be more inclusive, we also need to talk about female lover of men. To do so, we must set the rule that we must never use the phrase opposite sex. To say the male and female sexes are opposites is to imply that they are opposed to one another and are at war with one another. Rather use the term other sex or better yet companion sex. Male and female lovers are companions and men and women are meant to be companions. So, the proper term is companion sex. Thus, the more inclusive definition of the term skilled lover is a lover who is skilled at making members of the companion sex happy. We can be even more inclusive by saying that a skilled lover is a lover who is skilled at making others happy.

A male lover is a man who loves women, and therefore cares about the happiness of women. There are many types of male lovers. If a man has a loving relationship with just one woman, he is a lover and is in fact a monogenous lover. If some women at work say he is not a lover about a man who limits himself to one woman, then they are sexually slandering him for his loyalty to the one he loves and they are verbally pressuring him to share pleasure with other women in order to gain social approval. Both of those things are Sexual Harassment.

If some women at work say he is not a lover about a man because he does not share pleasure with them or other women they are friends with, then they are verbally pressuring him into sharing pleasure with whom they want. That is Sexual Harassment. Men have the right to be sexually free. If a man chooses to share pleasure with one group of women, because they respect him more, and not with another group of women, because they respect him less, then he has the right to do so. Denying a man the right to his own sexual choices, like denying a woman the right to her own sexual choices, may go beyond Sexual Harassment and may be a form of Rape. Militant women are rapists.

Because militant women are rapists of men, besides being rapists of women, they must be banned from making any comments of a sexual nature about any man at work. Their hatred of men and the male gender means that their comments will be sexually biased against men, sexual slander, and thus Sexual Harassment. I demand Sexual Equality for men! Social rules must be applied equally to men and women. IF it is considered OK for militant women to say that a man is not sexually OK if he does not give all the women in the social environment all of the pleasure and sex that they want, THEN it must be considered OK for militant men to say that a woman is not sexually OK if she does not give all of the men in the social environment all of the pleasure and sex that they want. If it is OK for a woman to scream in a man's ear, he is not a lover because the man did not do what the woman wanted him to do sexually, then it is OK for a man to scream in a woman's ear, she is not a lover because the woman did not give him sex when he asked her for sex!

Actually, when a woman screams in a man's ear he is not a lover, it is both Sexual Harassment of the man being talked about as well as Verbal Sexual Abuse and Sexual Harassment of the man being screamed at. The man should report her on charges of Sexually Harassment of two men with her actions. But, men are more reluctant to complain about Sexual Harassment because society discriminates against men and denies men equal protection under the law with regards to protection from Sexual Harassment. Another response, short of filing a Sexual Harassment complaint, is to scream in the woman's ear YOU are not a lover and therefore YOU have NO IDEA what a lover is! That is in fact the truth. Militant man haters have their hearts filled with hatred of men and their minds filled with prejudice against men. They have no idea of what it is like to honestly love men and seek to actually make men happy. They are not lovers of men and do not even know what love is. They do not even have a clue what it means to be a lover. How can someone who is not a lover be a qualified judge about who is or is not a lover? Militant women are not qualified to judge whether a man is or is not a lover.

Let me say a few words about what is and is not a lover. A male lover is not a man who gets pleasure and sex from women. Love is about caring for others, not a selfish pursuit of getting something for yourself. Of course, there must be mutual caring for your own needs and emotions as well as the needs and emotions of others. It is all about my copyrighted phrase Love Happiness. A male lover of women makes women happy because he enjoys making women happy and enjoys the happiness of women. That makes him a basic lover of women. If he learns psychological secrets and social skills to be good at making women happy, then he becomes a skilled lover of women. And if he learns the psychological and social secrets to transform his social environment to remove the imperfections in his environment that negatively effect his behavior, then he becomes a perfect lover of women. Only by removing the faults in your social environment that negatively effect your behavior can you obtain relative perfection.

In my book The Quest for Love and my other writings, I have already revealed the value-beliefs needed to be a basic lover, as well as the psychological secrets and social skills needed to be a skilled lover. I have gained the understanding to effectively describe the secrets to being a perfect lover. It is all about fulfilling the needs to have skill, opportunity, and motivation. If you have learnt the psychological secrets and social skills that I teach to become a skilled lover, then you merely need to add opportunity and motivation. You can pick a loving social environment, such as a bar or night club, where there is good opportunity and motivation. You can go bar hopping in search of the best opportunity and motivation. But, in more challenging social environments, you need to learn the secrets to attracting opportunity and transforming the environment so that your motivational needs are met.

IF the women in a given social environment honestly want a man to be a lover in that social environment, THEN they are willing to assure the man that his motivational needs are met in that social environment. They are willing to prove to him that being a lover results in respect, support, and reward, rather than slander, threats, and punishment. For men to have their motivational needs met, certain social rules must be in place in that social environment. If those social rules are not in place, then the man will not have his motivational needs met. If a man is slandered, threatened, and punished for being a lover, rather than respected, supported, and rewarded, then why the hell should he be a lover there? IF women in a social environment refuse to prove to a man that his motivational needs will be met, then it proves that they do not honestly want him to be a lover. If a man requests that his needs be met, such as assurance that there will not be traumatic punishment, and Evil Militant Women respond with words like its my way or the highway, then their refusal to meet the man's motivational needs PROVES that they do not honestly want men to be lovers of women. Men can in fact get a far better deal on the highway of bars and night clubs. When given a choice between the sexually abusive way of Evil Militant Women or the highway, I would choose the highway every time. It is NOT failure to not be a lover in a social environment where you are sexually slandered, traumatically threatened, and economically punished for making women happy! It is far easier to just be a perfect lover for years at bars and night clubs.

To be a lover in a Hostile Work Environment, where Evil Militant Women are filled with hatred of men and prejudice against men, you must first transform that environment into a Loving Environment by imposing social rules, that include no Sexual Harassment. The rules include the following.

Men must reject all judgement of men that is based on an inner hatred of all men and prejudice against all men. Any woman who thinks it is reasonable to say all men are rapists, are automatically disqualified as sexual judges and are banned from making any comments at all. It is already known that their comments would be Sexual Slander and thus Sexual Harassment. In fact, there are only two parties who know whether the man is or is not a lover. The first is the party of the first part, which is the man. The second is the party of the second part, which is the woman or women he interacts with. If the good and loving women at bars are seen smiling when he interacts with them and are heard saying he is lover, then case closed, it has been proven that he is a lover. The truth is that the thousands of women that I danced with and the hundreds of women that I shared pleasure with enjoyed my company and were made happy. My case is proven.

End Sexual Harassment and Hostile Work Environments

When a woman sexually slanders a man at work she is guilty of Sexual Harassment. When a woman spreads sexual lies about a man at work she is guilty of Sexual Harassment. When a woman verbally abuses a man at work to try to control his sexual beliefs and force him to believe what she wants him to, then she is Sexually Harassing him and probably another man as well. All women who verbally Sexually Harass men must be reported, warned by management, and fired from their jobs to remove them from work so the work place is no longer a Hostile Work Environment for men.

Evil Militant Women want to be the Sexual Rulers over the Sex Lives of men and women. They want to be the Sexual Social Dictators that control who gets respect, support, and reward and who gets slander, threats, and punishment. That gives them the power to be Sexual Rulers in charge of the Sex Lives of everyone at work. That gives them the power to slander, threaten, and punish men for being heterosexual lovers of women in order to put a stop to men loving women and making women happy. I have seen a woman scream in man's ears He is NOT a Lover! They can not stand men and male society respecting a man for giving good and loving women at bars the pleasure that they want to make good women happy. So, they sexually slander men and spread sexual lies about men who dare to make women happy. And they will scream in a man's ears to Sexually Bully him into not respecting another man as a Lover for giving women the pleasure that they want to make women happy. Their efforts to control the Social Status of men and determine who is respected by society and who is looked down on by society, is a part of their lust for Sexual Power and is a part of their Sexual Harassment of MEN.

Just because militant lesbians do not enjoy having a one night stand with a man does not mean that other women do not love heterosexual men and enjoy pleasure with male lovers. Some women have actually been known to hire a male gigolo. Evil Militant Women are against the Sexual Freedom of women, when it comes to shared pleasure with men. They say in print that they want to bust up heterosexual women. They sexually slander heterosexual women by saying things like She was a whore. Their attacks on men is also attacks on women.

IF a man is to be tested in a social environment to see if he is a Lover, then certain ground rules must be agreed to and be in place. The ground rules must make sure that the man is not Sexually Harassed. To begin with, he must be recognized as a Lover if he has a loving relationship with a woman or acts to make one or more women happy. A man must always be respect as being Sexually OK for loving women and making women happy, even if he is not the most skilled person in the world. Shall men in a social environment make the women in a social environment social outcasts if they can not prove to the men in that society that they are highly skilled at sexually satisfying the men of that social environment? Most people would consider that arrangement the Sexual Harassment of women. But why is it not viewed as Sexual Harassment when it is a MALE who is being looked down on for not being a good enough Sex Slave to women?

Men who love women and care about the happiness of women are basic lovers of women, even if they are not real good at making women happy. The only question then becomes, is he a Skilled Lover? Also, no Militant Woman can be involved in any way of Sexually Judging him and thus Sexually Slandering him and Sexually Harassing him. Any woman who believes it is OK to say things like all men are rapists, all heterosexual sex is rape, or only a woman knows how to love a woman, will not be allowed to make any comments about the man, because her obvious hatred of men and prejudice against men proves that she will Sexually Slander and Sexually Harass the man. Given that a man needs skills, opportunity, and motivation, testing his skills requires assurance to him that he has his motivational needs met so that his performance is not negatively influenced and sabotaged by a Hostile Work Environment. It must be assured that making women happy will always result in respect, support, and reward and never result in slander, threats, and punishment. And if there is no agreement to give him the assurance that he needs that his motivational needs will be met, then the deal is off and he is automatically recognized as a Highly Skilled Lover of Women. Or, we can rather base our opinions about men on how they perform in the social environments that they are most comfortable in. If a man goes to a Loving Environment, such as a good bar or night club, and gives good and loving women at bars the pleasure that they want to make them happy, then it has been PROVEN that he is a Highly Skilled Lover of Women.

In my books and writings I have instructed men on the secrets to being a basic lover and skilled lover. While a goal may be to gain shared pleasure, it must not be the only goal. The man must love women and show it by demonstrating as much concern for the happiness of the woman and women as his own happiness. Loving women means enjoying the happiness of women and enjoying making women happy. It means enjoying serving women and serving the pleasure needs of women. At bars when I offer a dance to women who's body language has indicated a desire for a shared dance, I am like a waiter in a restaurant serving a customer by offering my services to a potential customer. Its like being a Gigolo but without being paid for it, except the payment of shared pleasure. The reason I was so successful at dancing with thousands of women and sharing pleasure with hundreds of women is because they saw me as a source of pleasure and happiness for them. My advice to men includes supporting a woman's right to say no and complementing her for being free to say no. To do so, men must enjoy the happiness of women including their Freedom Happiness to say no. NOTE: I am the copyright owner of the phrases Love Happiness, Freedom Happiness, and Pleasure Happiness.

When Evil Militant Women Sexually Slander me for making women happy, they in fact tell men that they do not want men to make women happy. That is an attack on women. When Evil Militant Women call me not a lover or otherwise seek to persuade men to not believe me and my sexual advice, then they are telling men to not listen to my sexual advice that helps to end the rape of women. That puts them on the side of rape and rapists. That is an attack on women. When Evil Militant Women attack male love for women and oppose books and advice to men that would end male abuse of women and promote men serving the emotional needs of women, then they are opposing the interests of women are are attacking women. The Evil Militant Lesbian War against male heterosexual love for women is a War Against Women.

HONESTLY Judging Basic, Skilled, and Perfect Lovers

The idea of allowing Evil Militant Man Haters to decide for society or a social environment whether or not a man is Sexually OK or is a Lover is like the the idea of allowing Male Rapists of Women to be in charge of society or a social environment believing a woman is or is not Sexually OK or is a Lover. A woman should not have to do everything a group of male rapists wants her to do, just to have social acceptance and respect for her sexuality. Similarly, a man should not be sexually abused by having to do everything that Evil Man Haters want him to do, just to have social acceptance and respect for his sexuality.

To have HONEST Judgement, judgement must never been done by those who have an underlying hatred of and prejudiced against those being judged. Also, there must be no sexual bias. Men need Sexual Equality and Equal Protection. That means judging men and women by the same set of standards, as opposed to a Sexist Bias against men. Should a group of Militant Men be given the Social Thrown of Power to Judge for Society and dictate that society will not recognize a woman as being Sexually OK and a Lover unless she proves to them that she is a Lover by giving a designated group of men all of the pleasure and sex that they demand of her? Would it be considered to be Rape for men to require a woman to give sex on demand to men that she does not want to have sex with in order to have social acceptance and respect for her sexuality? Would some women in the Women's Movement point out that a woman must have Sexual Freedom and be free to "say no" to men that she is not interested in? How blatantly SEXIST is society if it does not have the same viewpoint when the sexes are reversed? A man should not have to prove himself to Militant Man Hating Abusers, any more than a woman should have to prove herself to Militant Woman Hating Rapists. And a man has the save rights to Sexual Freedom and the right to "say no" or "not ask" women he does not want to have sex with. Being free to "say no" or "not ask" does not make a woman NOT Sexually OK nor a man NOT Sexually OK. Society allowing Militant Men to decide if a woman is Sexually OK or NOT is sexual abuse of the woman. Society allowing Militant Women to decide if a man is Sexually OK or NOT is sexual abuse of the man.

What then is Fair and HONEST Evaluation of whether a man or a woman is a Basic Lover, Skilled Lover, or Perfect Lover? Who would be a fair and accurate judge, what should be the ground rules, and where should the judgement occur?

An Economics Professor does not judge the Master's Thesis of a Computer Science graduate student, nor does a Computer Science Professor judge the Master's Thesis of an Economics graduate student. A Qualified Judge is someone with both expertise and without bias. The only people even faintly qualified to judge whether a man or woman is a lover, is other men and women who are themselves Highly Skilled Lovers. Those with a sexual bias or sexual prejudice, such as Militant Men or Militant Women, do not even have the right to speak. Women do not want to be sexually judged by Militant Men, and men do not want to be sexually judged by Militant Women. Those qualified to give an Expert Opinion are men and women who have proven themselves to be Highly Skilled Lovers of the Companion Sex. That means men who have went to bars and shared dances, pleasure, dates, and sex with a number of women. That means women who have went to bars and shared dances, pleasure, dates, and sex with a number of men. IF a woman can NOT prove that she has gone to bars and had one night stands and shared sex with a lot of men, THEN she is unqualified to judge and must not make any comments. Such a woman should be told: You have NOT proven yourself to be a female lover of men, therefore you do NOT know what a Lover is and YOUR opinion means NOTHING.

The right to Sexual Freedom of Choice must always be respected, or society participates in Sexual Harassment or Rape. Male and female lovers have the right to "say no" or "not ask" those that they are not interested in. The offer of shared pleasure must always be on the basis of shared mood, shared desire, and shared interest. Just because someone is in the mood for something and has a desire for something, does not mean that he or she will choose fulfillment with just anyone and at that moment in time. Other factors for a decision includes personal preference for a type of person and personal choices about the environmental conditions. One man may only want to dance with red headed women, while another only likes blonds. Society can not say that a man or women is NOT a Lover, just because he or she does not go for a given person or persons. A man may only be interested in women who RESPECT him, just as many women prefer only men who RESPECT them.

The location of the evaluation of a person is very important. In the game of golf the audience must be very quite when the golfer is about to swing. This is so as to not distract him and sabotage his performance. You do not judge a golfer in a golf course next to a busy airport or train station. Nor do you judge a male or female lover in a Hostile Work Environment, where he or she is being slandered, threatened, and punished for making members of the companion sex happy. The best place for evaluation is at good bars or night clubs, where making others happy is respected, supported, and rewarded.

So, the judges must be proven Highly Skilled Lovers, the ground rules must include respecting freedom of choice, and the location must be in a Loving environment, such as a good bar. The next consideration is, what should be the criterion for evaluation? We may want to again consult experts. Those with an understanding of Sexual Relations Psychology may be able to describe the criteria for being a Basic Lover, Skilled Lover, and Perfect Lover. Well, we are in luck, because I have done years of experimental research on Sexual Relations Psychology and have written my discoveries in my books and writings, including the nature of being a Basic Lover, Skilled Lover, and Perfect Lover. So, I can describe how to do the evaluation. I wrote the Book of Love on How to Be a Lover! It was based on years of experimental research and success with women at bars.

Since the term Lover means One who Loves, testing if a man or woman is a Basic Lover means testing for a demonstration of a man loving women or a woman loving men. What is a demonstration of love? To love another means to care about the happiness and well being of the other, and thus to act to promote the happiness of the other. NOTE: I am the copyright owner of the phrases: Three Forms of Happiness, Pleasure Happiness, Freedom Happiness, and Love Happiness. Has the man or woman demonstrated promoting the three forms of happiness? In the years I spent at bars, I look at the mood and desires of women. When a women's body language or other signals indicates an interest in something, I offer it to her to give her an opportunity for the satisfaction of her desires for pleasure. A male friend who was at a bar with me commented that I offer dances to women who are moving with the music. When a woman is focused on the dance floor and is into a given song and seems to want to get up and dance to a song, that is when I usually offer her the opportunity to enjoy herself with me. That same principle applies to offering women pleasure, dates, and sex. Thus, I have years of demonstrating that I give women Pleasure Happiness. Just because a woman desires something does not mean she will say "yes" to her desire. When I offer a woman her desire, and she says "no", I smile at her, complement her, and support her decision. Thus, I have years of demonstrating that I give women Freedom Happiness. As I explain in my book, Love Happiness is the happiness gained from making others happy. Just as men can and should gain happiness from making women happy, good and loving women gain happiness from satisfying men and making men happy. By allowing women to give me Pleasure Happiness and Freedom Happiness, I am giving women Love Happiness. Some may believe that there is no love in a one night's stand. Not true. Even in a brief exchange, there can be mutual respect and shared love and compassion for one another. Therefore, my years of experiences with good and loving women at bars has proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that I am a male lover of women.

After a man or woman is a Basic Lover, he or she can become a Skilled Lover by developing social skills that improve the odds of shared happiness. What are those skills, you may ask. Read my book, The Quest for Love if you want to know. I outline some communication skills and behavioral skills. To determine if a man or woman is a Skilled Lover, you can ask if he or she is good at some of those skills. Some of them are as follows. Can you flirt, stimulate, turn on, and seduce? Can you read the body language, desires, and emotions of others? Can you act in harmony with the desires of the other sex to the point of complete satisfaction of the desire? Those who have mastered the skills that I teach in my book are Highly Skilled Lovers.

After a man or woman is a Skilled Lover, he or she can become a Perfect Lover by developing skills to perfect both others and self. Perfect action requires motivation. Motivation requires perfection in the social environment. Thus, perfecting society is the key to perfecting self. Being perfect includes the ability to gain the opportunities and motivation that you need. It also includes the ability to positively influence society to give opportunities and motivation to those who would give happiness to society. For example, can you positively influence society to respect men who make women happy and respect women who make men happy? Perfection includes Oneness, Peace, and Harmony of all things. Perfection means Loving others to the point of becoming One with others. You are One with others when you can say the following to others. I am in your mind, your heart, and your soul, and I am you. I can read your mind. I think your thoughts, feel your emotions, and touch your inner most being. Perfection is all about connecting to others and society in a positive way. But, there are few if any people who completely understand the nature of perfection and therefore would be qualified to judge perfection in others.

The Man Hater WAR Against Love and Women

For those who want to know more about The SCUM Manifesto, it can be found published near the back of the book Sisterhood is Powerful in an appendix. SCUM stands for Society for Cutting Up Men, so even the name of the organization implies the desire to butcher men. To be accurate, the first sentence actually says that they will Kill all men, who do not participate in their own demise. So, you may think, they may not kill all men. But, if you read further you find out what it means for men to participate in their own demise. The SCUM Manifesto says that those men who are not killed will be escorted to the friendly neighborhood suicide center. Thus, all men will be given the choice of being killed or committing suicide. The point is, they want all men to die!

Some may argue that those militant lesbians were only starting a joke and do not really hate men so much that they want all men to die or be killed. But, the militant lesbian author of the SCUM Manifesto in fact shot and killed Andy Warhol. He did not die right away, so some would argue that technically she did not kill him. But, I have read that the gun shot injured and weakened him, and the resulting weakness did result in his death, even though it was not immediate. The militant lesbian killer of Andy Warhol was sent to prison for her act. The author of the book Sisterhood is Powerful led a group of women to march in protest over the imprisonment of a woman for merely shooting to kill a mere man. After all, since all men are rapists, even if they are gay, perhaps women have the right to shoot and kill any man that they want to.

For those wanting a more direct description of events, search online for the phrase Who Shot Andy Warhol. See Andy Warhol Almost Dies. Valerie Solanas, the author of The SCUM Manifesto, that says in print We will kill all men, did herself act to kill a man. So, those who try to defend Evil Militant Lesbians by arguing that they were only Starting a Joke when claiming a desire to kill men, are obviously wrong. It was not just a Joke but an honest statement of their desire to kill men.

The book Sisterhood is Powerful also contains interesting documentation on how the Women's Movement was taken over by the Marxist ideas of Marxist Feminism. The idea of a Marxist Revolution is similar to a Militant Lesbian Feminist Revolution to take the power to rule away from Heterosexual Male Society and give it to Militant Lesbian Female Society. As some Marxists may want to overthrow and kill all rich people, the Militant Lesbians of SCUM have a stated goal of overthrowing male rule and then killing all men, including gay men. I expect that they hate male lovers of women, who love women and make women happy, the most, since male lovers are a threat to militant lesbians getting more sex from other women. Since there are in fact Racists who want to either enslave or kill all other races, it should not be that surprising that there are in fact Sexist Women who want to enslave or kill all men.

Please understand that there are good and evil people in every group of people. Just as there are Evil Militant Lesbians who are at War with male heterosexual love for women, there are Good and Loving Lesbians who complement and support male lovers of women who make women happy. There are good lesbians who complement heterosexual men for giving women pleasure and sex. I highly praise Good Loving Lesbians who RESPECT Male Lovers of Women, who make women happy. It is only Evil Militant Lesbians who Sexually Slander male lovers of women and all men by calling male lovers of women and all men Rapists. I have personally experienced being slandered, threatened, and punished for being a male lover of women.

Women need to fully understand that when Evil Militant Lesbians and other Man Haters sexually slander men for making women happy, it is not just a War Against Male Heterosexual Love for Women, but is therefore also a War Against Love and Women. Slandering, threatening, and punishing a man for Being a Lover and making women happy, is an effort to stop men from loving women and making women happy, which KILLS Love and denies women love, pleasure, and happiness from men.

How can Male and Female Lovers fight back against the War Against Love? One idea is to give Man Haters back the same vile Sexual Slander they dish out. When a Man Hating Woman hears about a man giving a good and loving woman at a bar the pleasure or sex that she wanted to make her happy, and she Sexually Slanders him for Being A Lover, then give the same slander back to her. If she says something like, He forced himself on her, then respond to her by saying, Why do YOU force YOURSELF on women and RAPE women? IF every time you hear about a man sharing pleasure and sex with women you automatically assume it is by force or rape, THEN YOU must be in a habit of forcing YOURSELF on women and RAPING women and naturally assume that men do the same thing to women that YOU do! Or, you could just report her for Sexual Harassment for Sexual Slandering a man for Being A Lover. Respond to the Sexual Slander and Sexual Harassment of all men in the form of statements like All men are rapists by saying that All Militant Women are Rapists. The fact is Militant Lesbians do rape other women. When an Evil Militant Woman Sexually Slanders a Male Lover with the words He is Not a Lover, in response to years of making women happy at bars, respond by saying, why do you hate men for making women happy at bars and why do you hate women and not want women to be happy? Sexual Slander, Sexual Harassment, of Male Lovers is not just an attack against Male Heterosexuality, but is also an attack against Love and Women!

How can the Champions of Love and Soldiers of Love protect LOVE from being killed by the Militant Lesbian War Against Love and help women by defending Male Lovers of Women? There is a difference between a psychological problem and a social environment problem. A psychological problem includes a false fear in a current environment due to memory of negative experiences in the past. A social environment problem is when it is in fact true that you are being slandered, threatened, and punished in a given social environment, so your fear is well grounded in reality. The reality of well documented Militant Lesbian hatred of all men and the experience of men being slandered, threatened, and punished for Being a Lover, indicates a social-political problem that must be fixed. To fix it, the Men's Movement needs to develop Men's Studies Classes or Love Studies Classes that teaches good and loving men and women how to Empower Themselves to fight back against the Militant Lesbian War Against Male Love for Women. When Militant Women Sexually Slander a man for Being a Lover, they need to be taught how to slander back or effectively defeat and destroy the sexual slander or just file a Sexual Harassment complaint. When Militant Women threaten to traumatically punish a man for Being a Lover, they need to punish them for their attacks, promise the male lover that they will not allow the Evil Ones to punish him for Being a Lover, and promise that they will see to it that he is rather rewarded for Being a Lover, whether the Evil Ones like it or not. When a Hostile Environment is changed into a Loving Environment and slander, threats, and punishment is replaced with respect, support, and reward, then men are free to be Lovers of Women.

How to be a Perfect Lover. There needs to be a class that teaches men that skill set. I have already written a book on how to be a basic lover and skilled lover of women. Some of the things that would be taught in such a class would be how men can Empower themselves Socially and Politically to get opportunity and to make sure that they are motivated to make women happy rather than demotivated by slander, threats, and punishment. It would include things like getting Social Contracts from good and loving men and women in the social environment to help defeat and destroy the influence of the militant lesbian enemies of male love for women. It would include asking men that when ever they hear evil militant women sexually harass you, they should document it, give that information to you, report it to the company, and help you consult a lawyer to get militant women fired or sue the company for allowing you to be sexually harassed at work. It would include asking good and loving women at work to tell evil militant women at work to shut the hell up so that men at work are not inhibited from offering women the dates that they want and are flirting with men to get. It would include instructions on how to gain the social and political power with alliances, help, and support to defeat the War Against Male Lovers. It is men gaining the power to tell Evil Militant Lesbians that they will not stop men from making women happy, because they have the social-political power to defeat and destroy the Enemies of Love. It is about teaching men how to gain social-political power so that they can not be stopped from making women happy. It is also about men having the right to not be raped by declaring that they refuse to make women happy in a social environment where they do not want to make women happy, because there is insufficient motivation in that social environment.

Please note that I believe psychologists can help and give expert advise not only with psychological problems but also with social-political problems as well as forms of life success coaching. So, it is not just advice on how to change from being inferior to being normal, but also advice on dealing with abuse from others and learning how to become superior. Going to a psychologist for advice does not mean you are inferior, but may mean that you need advice on dealing with abuse or a plan to become superior. Men may avoid getting psychological help in part due to the social stigma and in part because the social role model for men is that men must be independent and do things without needing help from others. Women can be superior and socially stronger than men because women feel that it is OK to be a victim and need help from others. Men need to learn that asking for and getting help is a sign of strength and superiority. Men are VICTIMS and need Equal Protection Under the Law!

How to End Sexual Harassment of Men. Ending Sexual Harassment of Men may require more than good advice from a psychologist and lawyer with expertise on the Sexual Harassment of Men. It may require political help and in fact a strong political movement to politically transform the laws and attitudes of society. About half of all Domestic Violence is against a male victim and the vast majority of murder victims are male, and yet there is no Violence Against Men Act! It is Unconstitutional to deny men equal protection under the law by having an equally funded Violence Against Men Act! Male victims of Sexual Harassment and Violence are denied equal protection because the Male Protector Sexual Role Model makes men the Sacrifice Sex that is supposed to suffer and die in war and street violence without complaining about it. We live in a sexist anti-male society! To end Sexual Harassment Against Men, there is a need for a strong Men's Movement and Love Movement to educate society to change social attitudes and to change the laws and rules to equally protect men.

Every High School, college, and work environment should be taught an educational class on the Sexual Harassment of Men and what must be done to stop it. The class should teach some of the following things. IF a militant woman at work Sexually Slanders a man for Being a Lover at bars by giving women at bars the pleasure and sex that they want, THEN that is Sexual Harassment and it must not be tolerated and allowed. IF militant women at work demand that they be in charge of deciding whether or not a man is Sexually OK and a Lover, THEN that is Sexual Harassment and it must not be tolerated and allowed. WHEN Militant Lesbians play the Alice in Wonderland Game that words mean what ever they want them to mean and that making women happy is not a lover but rather gaining the approval of Militant Lesbians is a lover, THEN that is Sexual Harassment and it must not be tolerated and allowed. WHEN Evil Militant Women slander, threaten, and punish a man for making women happy, and then blame the male victim of their abuse for being inhibited, THEN that is Sexual Harassment and it must not be tolerated and allowed. WHEN Evil Militant Women try to Rape a man by trying to force him to Be a Lover with the women that they want, rather than with the women of his choosing, THEN that is Sexual Harassment and it must not be tolerated and allowed. A successful loving relationship between men and women requires that each party in the relationship has their Motivational Needs met by the relationship, or the relationship FAILS. WHEN a man says that he needs X and the women of that relationship deny him his motivational need for X and rather say its my way or the highway, AND he chooses the highway with good and loving women at bars, THEN the Evil Ones have FORFEITED ALL RIGHTS to EVER complain!

IF women have the right to only share pleasure and sex with the men that THEY choose and on THEIR terms, THEN men have the very same right to NOT be Raped by Evil Militant Women. A male Lover has the right to Be a Lover with the women of his choosing, on his terms, and the location of his choosing, such as where he gets RESPECT! A male Lover is NOT a man who gains the approval of Evil Militant Man Hating Lesbians. A male Lover is a man who makes women happy. Sexually slandering a man for Being a Lover with good and loving women at bars, is Sexual Harassment and it must not be tolerated and allowed. Evil Militant Women who Sexually Harass men at work must be FIRED for Sexual Harassment, or the company must pay economic compensation for subjecting the man to Sexual Harassment. It is TIME for the Sexual Harassment of men to END!

Evil Militant Women are At WAR with male Love for women and are trying to KILL Love between men and women. To protect Love, the Champions of Love must take all social power away from Evil Militant Enemies of Love and give it rather to male and female lovers. Male and female lovers, who share pleasure, dates, and sex with members of the other sex or companion sex, are the only ones who can correctly comment on those of the other sex who have shared pleasure, dates, and sex with them. Social Power must be taken away from Champions of Sexual Hatred and given to Champions of Love. Only then will love flourish between men and women. Only then will Love rule society.

How can we END Sexual Suffering and Promote Happiness?

One thing that we must do is to remove social and political power from sexual militants and give social and political power to sexual lovers. How can we do that? By starting an Egalitarian Love Movement that promotes love, understanding, respect, and equality between both genders and all races. We also need to teach my Spiritual Psychology class to millions of people to end the psychological root causes of sexual hatred, racial hatred, violence, rape, and murder. A great deal of human suffering can be ended by education to change people from an evil value-belief system of hatred and prejudice to one of love and understanding.

I know the secrets to Ending All Human Suffering on Earth and can teach those secrets to the world. If I teach my Spiritual Psychology Class to millions of people in every nation on Earth, then we can end the psychological root causes of sexual hatred, racial hatred, violence, rape, and murder. We can end all individual based human suffering. If I teach my Voters Training Class to millions of people in every nation on Earth, then we can move the world toward both a Political Direct Democracy and Economic Democracy. That would end political oppression, slavery, poverty, homelessness, hunger, unemployment and all society based human suffering. And if environmentalists, environment scientists, and enlightened people teach classes to the people of the world on how to change from a human war against nature to Oneness with Nature, then we can end all nature based human suffering. And if there were a global reformation of the world religions to discard the false doctrines of men and formal set of rules in favor of teaching Love and Oneness, then humanity would be guided to a more perfect world where almost all human suffering has ended.

Too Little Time - Too Little Money

Perhaps some day I will start an Egalitarian Love Movement or some organization devoted to teaching the world how to end all human suffering on planet Earth. For now, I have my web page and writings.

As a computer programmer by profession, I am not rich. The company I worked for years ago went nearly bankrupt and laid off one hundred thousand employees. With 9-11, the job market dried up for a time. With age discrimination in a less than great economy, even a computer programmer can not always easily find the next job. These days many companies not only want workers to work 10 to 20 extra unpaid overtime hours during the week but also expect even more unpaid hours on the weekend. When a computer programmer has to work 60 to 70 hours a week, while being paid for 40 hours a week, he neither has the time nor the money to do a lot of work to help others.

Some day I will need to ask for donations of money for my causes. Only then will I be able to devote full time work and have the money needed to save millions to billions of people from human suffering. Until that happens and I get the financial support that I need, then I must maintain the small economic security of working as a computer programmer. Dreams of a better world cost money and time. Perhaps some day I will get the money to have the time to Save the World.

WHEN women and female society indicates that they are willing to reward a man for giving them their Cherished Dream of male Lovers, by being a Lover and teaching other men secrets, THEN are women and female society LIARS who never keep their word? IF women do NOT appreciate male love and compassion for women, then why the hell should men have love and compassion for women? IF women are UNGRATEFUL for the things that men do for them, like work to SAVE WOMEN from violence, rape, and murder, THEN why the hell should men do anything to help women?

Evil Militant Lesbian Rapists of Women do not want men to be lovers of women, do not want men to be taught how to be lovers, and certainly do not want their rape of women to end. So, when I wrote my book, The Quest for Love, which gives women and female society their Cherished Dreams of male Lovers and ENDING Rape, rather than getting financial and political support to make my book a million seller I got a letter from a militant woman that said my book would be banned from bookstores! In my book I teach men the secrets to being a basic lover and skilled lover, as well as changes to end rape. Opposing the Cherished Dreams of women is stabbing women and female society in the back! Evil Militant Lesbian Rapists of Women are At War with women and female society.

By writing my book and teaching my class, I gave women their Dream of greater love and happiness and I gave women their Dream of being saved from suffering and death. To have their dreams, all women have to do is make sure that millions of people read my book and millions of people take my class. Out of gratitude, will women and female society financially and politically support my work to Save the World? My work to Save the World includes my Spiritual Psychology Class to end sexual hatred, racial hatred, violence, rape, and murder. Thus when women support my Spiritual Psychology Class to Save the World from individual based human suffering, they are in fact supporting work to end their suffering. Do women HONESTLY want THEIR suffering to end, and PROVE it by supporting work to END THEIR suffering?

Love, Unappreciated, Dies! If love and compassion for women is not appreciated, then why the hell should men have love and compassion for women? If women are not grateful for the things that men do for them, then why the hell should men do things for women? Perhaps, faith in women is foolish. It is true that good and loving women at bars did express appreciation of love with respect and shared pleasure. However, will I ever see great female support for my book and my class? I believe my faith may have been misplaced. Betting on appreciation and gratitude from female society may have been a bad bet to make.

In any case, I know the secrets to Ending Human Suffering. Is the world spiritually ready to listen to good advice and make the changes needed to end the suffering of billions of people? I have offered the world Salvation from Human Suffering. Will the world be wise enough to take my advice and make the changes that I suggest in order to save billions from human suffering? World, the ball is in your court now! Do you HONESTLY WANT the world to be SAVED from human suffering? IF you DO, THEN support my work and follow my advice! And IF you do NOT, THEN blame yourself for your future suffering and death. I can not save those who will not listen and will not support work to SAVE THEM.

When I have the money and time, then I can do more work to Save the World. Some say that we should not have compassion on the suffering and death in the world and should not try to save the world from any suffering and death, because only Jesus Christ can save the world. They would say that we should not lift one finger to end the rape of women and murder of men and should rather wait for Jesus Christ to return to save people from violence, rape, murder, etc. What a cop out! IF I do not get the support that I need for my work, then BILLIONS of people may suffer and DIE! THAT is the price of people NOT listening to me and taking my advice!